Have you ever thought why you can’t study properly in your whole academic year but in your examinations, you can study the whole syllabus in a few hours or in a day?
Have you ever thought about this?
In your Academic year, you can’t solve a single numerical in class but when the exams are on the head you just grab all the knowledge just like you grab a burger & eventually you rock your exam. Then there’s this thought that strikes your mind that if I had studied like this from the very beginning then definitely I would’ve scored much better than this.
Would you like to know the reason why your exam went so damn good?
Keep reading and you will get the answer.
Let’s understand this by using an example:
It is a story of a boy whose name is X. He is 20 years old. He is a stoner (who smokes weed). At the beginning, he thought smoking is cool . He thought that “to stand in cool guys company he should smoke too”. He starts smoking with one perception that he will not be a regular, he will do this occasionally and can stop whenever he wants to. But as time goes on he becomes a regular and after some time he becomes a chain smoker(who smokes around 1-2 packet per day).
After a while his parents get to know that he was indulged in all these activities and they simply tell him the pros and cons of smoking. X was not ready to accept and his parents didn’t say much. After all this, X started losing his grades, fitness and his reputation in society. One day X realizes that he has nothing with him except one thing and that is a cigarette.
Now there were two options for him to live life and those were: Continue the same lifestyle that made him what he is.
Get back to normal life by quitting smoking.
If he goes with option 1 then definitely he will not survive much longer, but if he opts for option 2 there may be a chance that he will survive but not sure because it’s not easy to quit smoking and change.After many counselling sessions, he was able to do it less often.
For example once in a week he didn’t smoke but eventually started again.
Before I move on I would like to clear something to you guys. some of the decisions we make help us but some backfire. Do you know why?
The reason is when our heart and mind are in sync they give the correct answer but when they are not they give the wrong one. Lets clear this out:
The main reason behind my first question i.e. why we were able to complete the syllabus in just one night?
A day before an exam only one thing keeps rolling in our head which is “I have to pass in this exam” (backlog, dad will scold me and various other reasons). Here one thing is clear, mind and heart are in sync mode. If they were not in sync, you try thousand times but you can’t complete the course.
Here sync means you know what will happen and how much it will affect your life . If any obstacles will come to waste your time(like gaming or relationships) you will not care at all.
Now why X is unable to quit smoking?
His system (mind and heart) is not in synch mode that means he knows that cigarette is bad for his health but his heart says (YOLO) and he continues smoking.
Which means if he want to quit smoking he has to sync his mind with his heart.
What is Sync Mode
Basically sync mode can be defined as a mode in which our heart matches up with our mind. When our head says to do a thing and heart follows we achieve what we really want to achieve.
If “SRK” loves acting and he joins politics for some other reason. Do you think that he will achieve that much of success?
So make sure that when you follow your dream is it in correct manner and your sync mode is on?
If yes then one day you will definitely achieve your dream.
When you are in asynchronous mode just wait and take time to switch in sync mode then start again.
The reason behind our failure is that we passionately follow our dreams without knowing what’s good or bad.
If you want your dream to come true just do one thing, start looking from the beginning from where you started doing efforts and think about why you started.
Believe in yourself guys, trust your instincts because even if you don’t, Time will not stop. So live it now or disappear without a mark or a hint. The choice is yours.
This blog is written By Karan. Comment below and let us know your thought.