Prepare Your Child For The Real World

Prepare Your Child For The Real World

How To Prepare Your Child For The Real World?

No one can deny that parents love and care for their children is unconditional and is the purest and genuine love we can see on this earth. Parents protect their children. They pamper them and care for them always, no matter how much grown up their daughter/son is they always treat them like a baby, for them their children are always small little baby who always need to be protected.  If God would have given a chance to parents to write their children destiny by their own hands, then every parent would have written great happy and peaceful life for their children. They would have written that their baby life to be easy and their baby should get everything without efforts and hard work. They would have written that their baby to always stay protected and should never get hurt, No parent wants their child to get hurt, hence they try their best to protect them. They always keep every negative and bad thing away from their children, whatever their children demand. They fulfill it. They try to fulfill their every wish and want their child to stay happy always.

I have noticed many parents give their cell phones to their small kids, just because of their happiness, nowadays parents fulfill every unnecessary demand of their children, just because they want them to stay happy. Parents love and care is natural and there is nothing wrong with it, but overprotection and fulfilling their unnecessary demand is not right.  Many parents don’t shout their children for their wrong behavior and attitude, shouting and hitting is not right, but not correcting your child’s behavior and attitude is also not right, Every parent needs to understand their child, they need to prepare their children for real world, hitting shouting will not make your child strong, and giving everything which they demand will not make them happy, all this thing will be temporary, you need to think as per their long-term happiness and strength.

Fulfilling every unnecessary demand, and not correcting their wrong doings and behavior will not allow them to stay happy in their coming life, your overprotecting nature can make things very tough for them when they move out into the real world, for example, a boy name raj was a very pampered child, since childhood his parents use to protect him from anything, they use to fulfill all his demands, because of this overprotecting nature they never allowed their son to move out of house for any work, like whenever his mom needed anything from market, his father used to go, whenever his father used to be at work, his mother used to go out for light bill payment and for other stuff, they used to keep their son protected they didn’t want anyone to hurt him, hence because of this over protected nature that boy raj became very sensitive, he then by himself never used to go out, Even after becoming mature enough he was unable to face the real world, Now when his parents asked him to move out to do some work, he used to avoid doing those work, Now tell me whose fault it is? Parents are not doing any favor by making their children live unrealistically easy. Every parent needs to understand at what moment and at what time they should allow their children to make their own decision, they should prepare their children for the real world, because no one will stay a baby for too long, after some years child will grow hence parents need to understand this change, because baby changing to teen and teen changing to an adult, this change is not only related to physical appearance but mentally too, hence parents needs to understand this change and they should also change their upbringing pattern along with child’s growth.

Your child will for sure face competition, your child for sure face negative energy, your child for sure encounter a competitive showdown, your child will for sure at some age will face personal tragedy,  your child will for sure make mistake, At such situation what you will do? If you don’t inculcate proper values in your child’s mind and behavior, then your child will for sure fail to handle such situations strongly and positively, hence since childhood teach your children proper values and make them strong mentally and physically, because at the certain stage they need to handle everything by their own. They need to know how to handle tough situations, they should know that they need to be strong because at some stage parents will need their care and support, not they, hence you must prepare your child for real world, you must teach them the value of everything, you must make them understand the importance of respecting other people and how kind and open minded nature will help them to get success, you must make them understand importance of decisions in life, you must make them understand importance of goals and passion in their life, you must make your child understand how knowledge education is really required, Parents should inculcate positive attitude in their children, they should communicate with their children, for example, I have seen many parents never notice their children behavior, like they don’t care why their child is sad or upset they just try to make them feel happy by fulfilling their unnecessary demand, instead of doing these parents should communicate with their children.

Life is not some kind of movie or a fairytale, life is real and it can be tough sometimes, hence teach your child that courage, strength and believe can make life easy successful and happy.

You must Prepare Your Child For The Real World and teach your children about how they can survive in this competitive world, should inculcate good values and also should teach them that their success and their right attitude will not only make his/her life successful and happy but it will be a great contribution towards our country growth, we must grow our country positively by doing positive things.

Today will share some guidelines which help you to Prepare Your Child For The Real World:

1. Teach them to be self-dependent
2. Teach them the importance of decision and choices
3. Teach that mistakes happen
4. Make your child understand about realistic expectation
5. Work hard and smart
6. Stay strong
7. Respect honesty and just quality

1. Teach them to be self-dependent

After certain age your children need to understand the importance of self-reliant, they should never become overly dependent on others, Parents should teach them, That things can’t be done for you, it must be done by you, No one will come to your home and feed you, it is you who needs to go out and need to earn to feed yourself.

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2. Teach them the importance of decision and choices

Parents should make their child understand the importance of choices and decisions,  a child should accept responsibility they should never play blame game, because if they keep on blaming on others then this will become their habit which will affect their life badly, hence parents should make their child understand the importance of choices decision and responsibility.

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3. Teach that mistakes happen

If your child makes any mistake then instead of shouting them and hitting them,  sit with them and understand them about their mistake and tell them its ok to make mistake because this mistake will help you to learn, and ones you learn means you won’t repeat the same thing again, and if you repeat the same mistake again then it will be your wrong choice and wrong choices affect your life and future.

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4. Make your child understand about realistic expectation

Many parents fulfill unnecessary demands of children, this unnecessary demands after certain age becomes unrealistic expectation of their children, and this unrealistic expectation can cause serious problems, hence make your children understand that they will get what they deserve not what they want, because what you deserve for that you’ll work hard but what you want is nothing but your wish and demand which doesn’t get fulfill in real world.

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5. Work hard and smart

Make your child understand the value of hard work and importance of smart work, As it says smart work along with hard work brings accomplishments and achievements

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6. Stay strong  

Teach your child that after some time he/she needs to be strong both mentally and physically, because life will give tough time for sure, everyone gets that tough time, hence they need to stay strong they need to face every situation like a pro, they must stand straight and should always face the world and situation with smile, and no matter how bad situation is your mental strength and capability will beat it for sure, and inculcate never quite attitude in your children.

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7. Respect honesty and just quality

Parents should inculcate some really beneficial qualities in their children and that is quality of respecting others and own self and quality of honesty loyalty and always being fair and just, this quality takes person to top and others always admire such people.

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Last but not the least

Always teach your children importance of knowledge and learning, ask your children to get involved in watching motivational videos, ask your children to read to learn ask your child to learn from mentors this thing will give your child a right and a true way towards a successful and peaceful life.

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These are the 7 points to Prepare Your Child For The Real World. The child always follows the footstep of their parents. Hence every parent must be careful with their path because parents wrong path will give the wrong path to their children.

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Juganta Saikia

?unfortunately, not all parents are like that…?

Thanks……

SAYYED VIQUAR AHMED
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SAYYED VIQUAR AHMED

EVERY PARENT SHOULD TEACH THEIR CHILDREN LIKE THIS .