How To Give Compliments

1) Least expected words
2) Notice the good change
3) Compliment them for their accomplishment
4) Be true and genuine
5) Flirt vs compliment
6) Have an eye contact
7) Make your compliment specific
8) Compliment publicly
9) Your compliment should have all three
10) Compliment don’t judge or compare

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It feels so good to receive a compliment, Every individual loves to get compliments, getting a compliment from someone makes us feel good and happy, Compliments not only makes us feel good but it also strengthens our relationship with others, it plays a great role in building a good relationship, Getting a compliment really gives us joy, but do you know that giving compliment to others make us feel happier, giving compliments not only give happiness to others but it also gives us joy, it not only makes us happy but also keeps our heart healthy and fit.

Many people don’t know How to give compliments, they don’t know how they can make other people feel good, Many people don’t have good compliment giving skill, hence they always stay confused like how to give compliments to others, so that compliment not only make others feel good but also make them feel good and also help them to build genuine and healthy relationship, Few people give compliment still they fail to make other people feel good and also fail to build strong relationship, the reason they fail to make others happy even after giving compliments because they don’t know the real way to give compliments they just don’t know how to give compliments.

Giving compliments is not only about saying few words, but giving compliment is about feeling those words, you should mean your compliment, you should be genuine and true with your compliment, some people feel that by saying few good words they are actually complimenting someone, but that’s not a true compliment, True compliment comes from your heart and your genuine words touches other people heart, hence giving compliment is not as easy as you think, it must be pure true and genuine only then you’ll learn to give compliments.

How To Give Compliments:

1) Least expected words

say something that the other person would least expect to hear, that least expected word will make the opposite person feel good, and remember that least expected word should be good about that person, only good things are considered as a compliment.

For example, you know that opposite person is very kind and lovable then instead of keeping that compliment inside you, just say it to him/her, this least expected complement of yours will make the opposite person feel good and happy.

2) Notice the good change

When you see some good changes in another person, instead of ignoring it just talk about that thing, for example, if you see that your friend has highlighted his or her hair, and that highlighted hair is looking good on him/her, then don’t ignore it, give compliment to him/her about it, say that it’s really looking good, you are looking good, this noticed compliment will for sure make them feel important and special.

3) Compliment them for their accomplishment

Try to compliment the opposite person on their accomplishment, on the achievement which they have achieved on their own, don’t always compliment someone for the things they are born with, compliment them for the things they have achieved on their own, for example, instead of giving them compliment about their house and how lucky they are, tell them how hard working they are, tell them that their hard work is the reason behind their accomplishment, this compliment of yours will make them feel that yes they have the potential and yes there are genuine people in this world who appreciates their hard work, this kind of compliments will for sure strengthen your relationship with the opposite person.

4) Be true and genuine

Most of the people feel that giving compliment matters, it doesn’t matter whether it’s true or not, I would suggest you that if you want to make someone feel happy then give genuine and true compliments because fake ones really mean nothing at all, hence try to give a genuine and true compliment. A genuine compliment has the capability to touch anybody’s heart because a genuine compliment can be seen in your eyes.

5) Flirt vs compliment

understand that there’s a huge difference between flirting and giving compliments, and it can be easily visible whether you are flirting or giving a genuine compliment, Flirting usually don’t have genuine words, they are said just to look pro whereas Compliments are usually genuine and compliments are given when you actually want the opposite person to feel good, flirting usually looks bad and people can be offended by it whereas compliment looks genuine and people usually feels good about it.

6) Have an eye contact

While giving a compliment to someone or your loved ones, always have an eye contact, because looking at the opposite person directly in their eyes will make them feel that yes you are genuine with your words and this way of giving compliment will for sure bring trust in your relationship.

7) Make your compliment specific

Be specific with your compliments, the more specific your compliment will be the more impact your compliment will create for example instead of saying you are looking good today, say that this necklace really suits you, and don’t just stop there, back up your compliment because when you back up your compliment it becomes stronger such as YOU LOOK GOOD BECAUSE THIS DRESS COLOR SUITS YOU OR THE NECKLACE MATCHES YOUR EYE COLOR, and remember don’t exaggerate your compliment, keep it short and simple otherwise it can look fake. Your specific compliment with a back up will make the opposite person feel that yes you notice them and they are special and important to you.

8) Compliment publicly

Always compliment someone publicly, people usually make a huge mistake by complimenting someone personally and by giving feedback publicly, some do worst thing by criticizing publicly, at first we should never criticize someone and publicly should be a big no-no, we should always compliment someone publicly, this will keep your relationship stronger, and always give feedbacks personally, this will avoid embarrassment and insult kind of feelings.

9) Your compliment should have all three

When you compliment it means we are expressing our admiration, affection, and respect for the opposite person, a compliment become genuine when your words have the mixture of all three Admiration, affection and respect.

10) Compliment don’t judge or compare

While giving compliment you should not compare the person with someone else, for example nowadays many people say that you look like that actress, your body is like that actor, no such compliments should be avoided, a person should be complimented for his or her uniqueness and identity, never compare or value judge someone, never mix compliment with comparison.

Thank you.